Recently, while looking through some of my mother's belongings, I ran across this poem. It's dated 1940, so it is quite old. Therefore, you may find some of its suggestions amusing and not at all appropriate for today. Still, I found it interesting and entertaining. Perhaps you will, too.
Dirndl: Traditional Women's Clothes from Germany and Austria
Lines To A Daughter
One of the things you really should know
Is when to say “yes” and when to say “no.”
There aren’t any textbooks, there aren’t any rules,
The subject’s neglected in orthodox schools.
You can’t be consistent; there’s often a reason
For changing your mind with a change in the season.
You may be quite right in accepting at seven
Suggestions you’d better refuse at eleven.
Perhaps you’ll consider these tentative hints:
“No” to a dirndl of highly glazed chintz,
“Yes” to the bashful young man at the dance,
“No” to the man who’s been living in France.
“Yes” to a walk in the park in the rain
“Yes” if he asks for a chance to explain.
“No” to all slacks unless you’re too thin,
“No” to that impulse to telephone him.
“Yes” to a baby and “No” to a bore
“No” if you’re asked if you’ve heard it before.
“Yes” to a Saturday, “No” to a Monday
“Yes” to a salad and “No” to a sundae.
“Yes” to a stranger (but use some discretion)
“No” to three cocktails in rapid succession
“No” if he’s misunderstood by his wife
“Yes” if you want it the rest of your life.
Remember, my darling, careers and caresses
Depend on our choices of “No’s” and “Yes’s!"